Love

What is Love?

It is one of the most difficult questions for all. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. Some say it's mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable and undefinable. Perhaps.

To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker.

When we express love, we develop a strong emotional attachment. Actually in a response to, “What is Love?” it is erroneous to say “love is God.” God created love, not the reverse.

Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. For example the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.

Love is not a thing that we can create forcefully. Sometime when you see someone is looking beautiful gorgeous you have fill some attraction to that person, especially this is happen to teenagers in maximum cases. But in most of the cases this is just an infatuation. But for this we can’t blame them at all. It is quite natural. But when we able to find the goodness of that person besides his or her outlook and when all our concentration is become centered on him or her then that means you are now in love.

Love doesn’t think about any barriers. Love can’t see whether the person is rich or poor. It doesn’t have any age limit.

If we say about true love we can say love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action—true love. True love is not in taking but in giving, in scarifying.

Sometime we mixed sex and love together as a same thing. Sex is not love! Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Especially premarital sex is not love; it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The Bible says that when two people are married, they become one flesh.

When you are honestly prepared to make a life-long commitment to that person—then you can say that you are truly “in love.”